Does a triple divorce, issued by the husband in a single moment due to an argument with his wife about the care of their infant daughter and his letting her drink regular milk, take effect? What is the ruling on his returning her to him after 14 days without her knowledge, given that he accuses her of verbal abuse and demands that she relinquish part of her deferred dowry for the divorce?

Our advice is for you to obey your father by waiving some of the deferred dower for your husband so he may divorce you and the disputes may end, because it appears he is keen on your well-being and chooses for you the lesser of two evils. And rejoice in good, by the blessing of your obedience to your father, for: "The Lord's pleasure is in the parent's pleasure, and the Lord's displeasure is in the parent's displeasure."