What is the ruling on a young man and woman continuing their relationship through conversations online and over the phone after her father refused to marry her to him due to a disagreement over the dowry, knowing that they adhere to respectful communication?
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The relationship between non-mahram men and women outside of marriage is forbidden by Islamic law. Therefore, the questioner must refrain from communicating with the girl until the legal marriage contract is concluded. Exaggeration in dowries (mahr) is contrary to the guidance of the Prophet, peace be upon him, who encouraged facilitating marriage due to the corrupting effects it has, such as the spread of spinsterhood. The girl's family should prioritize their daughter's welfare, weigh matters by the scale of Islamic law, and make the young man's religiosity and character their criterion.
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