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How is the Prophet's urging to marry a religious woman reconciled with the permissibility of marrying a disbelieving woman of the People of the Book?

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It is permissible for a Muslim man to marry women from the People of the Book (Jews and Christians), based on the Almighty's saying: "and the chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before you," and based on the actions of the Companions.

However, a group of scholars disliked this marriage, fearing that the Muslim might be swayed by her religion, and due to the saying of Umar ibn al-Khattab to one who married a Kitabiyyah (woman from the People of the Book): "Divorce them." Malik disliked it fearing that she might feed her children alcohol and pork, or that she might die and be buried in the graveyards of the disbelievers while pregnant with his child.

While Islam permits marriage to a chaste Kitabiyyah, it encourages marrying a woman of good character and religious devotion, as that is superior. An example of this is the permission to marry female slaves for those who fear hardship, while preferring patience over marrying them due to the risk of exposing children to slavery. The Almighty said: "but that you endure patiently is better for you."

Marrying a Kitabiyyah might be a solution for Western converts to Islam, or for those residing in their countries who fear falling into temptation and cannot find a Muslim woman with whom to preserve their chastity.

Summarized from the full answer at Ftawy · reviewed Sep 2, 2026

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