How can a disobedient girl, who is married and has children, be persuaded to abandon her disobedience, especially since she reverted to her previous state after prior attempts? And is it permissible to direct harsh words to her to stir her?

It is certain that a woman must care for her children and attend to their affairs, showering them with love and affection, for they are trusts entrusted by Allah to the parents to look after their religious and worldly interests. This necessitates that parents educate them, discipline them, command them to obey Allah, and protect them from the Fire, as stated in the verse: "O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones." The wife must fear Allah and dread the reckoning on the Day of Judgment, and remember the severe warning for whoever neglects a trust. For whoever deceives his flock, Allah will forbid Paradise for him, as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "There is no servant whom Allah entrusts with a flock, who dies on the day he dies while deceiving his flock, except that Allah forbids Paradise for him."