Is it permissible to seek divorce from a husband who lacks responsibility, neglects his wife, betrays her, and lies, all after the marriage contract but before consummation, especially when the family refuses?

A wife is not permitted to seek a divorce without a legitimate reason. If she does so, the scent of Paradise will be forbidden to her. However, if there is a legitimate reason, such as the husband's oppression or immorality, then there is no blame. It is advisable to be patient and consult with family, and to frankly inform the husband of the reasons for aversion, attempting to rectify his behavior through supplication and encouraging him to associate with righteous people and attend gatherings of knowledge. If his conduct does not improve, then there is no blame in seeking a divorce, and she will not be sinful for disagreeing with her family in this matter if there is harm involved.