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What should be inquired about during the legitimate viewing (Ru'yah الشرعية), and what are the questions that reveal the piety of the household and the righteousness of the girl? What is the appropriate time for the session, and is it permissible to ask about the past? Must one accept any condition they impose?

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There are no specific questions or words to be spoken during an engagement, nor is there a set duration for it. This is left to necessity and custom. The following is advised: Ascertaining the righteousness and religiosity of the girl should be done by asking those who know her, not by posing specific questions to her. It is recommended to bring along a wise man of sound judgment and opinion. Avoid asking very private matters, and do not commit beyond one's capabilities.

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