Is a wife obligated to remain in a marriage where the husband neglects her legitimate marital rights, such as cohabitation and affection, and prefers to sleep outside the marital bedroom, under the pretext of children and work pressure, despite her psychological suffering from this deprivation, and despite her significant financial contribution to providing for the family's needs?
A husband is not obligated to sleep in his wife's bed as long as he fulfills her right to equitable division (of his time, if he has more than one wife) and sexual intercourse. However, it is preferable for him to sleep with her if she desires it and he has no valid excuse, as their sleeping in the same bed is better. This was evident in the actions of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him. The preponderant opinion is that a husband must ensure his wife's chastity and satisfy her sexual needs to the best of his ability. It is advisable to be open with the husband and understand the reason for his reluctance, to address any shortcomings, and to cooperate in obedience to Allah and adherence to the Shari'ah.
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