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Why do things beyond the couple's capacity occur, preventing them from meeting, despite their prayers and Islam's urging for reunion?

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It is part of a Muslim's belief to have faith in Allah Almighty's wisdom and justice. Therefore, one should not preoccupy themselves with questioning the wisdom behind everything Allah decrees. Rather, they should be certain that He, glory be to Him, "is not questioned about what He does, but they will be questioned" (Quran 21:23). This is due to the perfection of His knowledge, power, mercy, and wisdom. When affliction descends, the wise person should seek what benefits them in terms of acts of worship that suit their condition. For thanksgiving for blessings is an act of worship for the recipient, while patience, contentment, and submission to Allah's decree are acts of worship when calamity strikes, along with reliance on Allah, having a good opinion of Him, and persistently supplicating with certainty. It is ignorance to be annoyed or object to the reversal of circumstances; instead, one must believe in and submit to Allah's wisdom. In times of calamity, a Muslim should look to those who are afflicted more severely than them so as not to grieve or despair. The summary is patience and contentment, frequent supplication, and taking means while relying on Allah Almighty.

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