Is it obligatory for a girl to separate from her fiancé due to intellectual and cultural differences between them, and their incompatibility on fundamental issues such as procreation, and his persistent desire to discuss intimate relations, or should she compromise her desires and complete the marriage with him?
Among the most important objectives of Islam in marriage are its continuity and the stability of married life. Therefore, a spouse should be chosen based on religiosity and good character. Although the compatibility of levels between spouses is important, the most crucial criterion is religiosity and good character. If these are present in the suitor, it is hoped that other differences will not negatively impact the relationship. If the fiancée feels that the suitor is unsuitable for her and that understanding is not achieved, she may try to convince her father to annul the engagement. She has the right to annul it if he is not convinced, as parents do not have the right to compel their child to marry someone they do not desire.
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