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How can one overcome a lack of communication with one's husband and surroundings, especially since the husband enjoys joking, which may amount to lying, leading to a silence that fills the marital life despite the husband's attempts to initiate a conversation?

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To overcome marital silence, one can leverage the husband's interests and hobbies, such as reading, poetry, and football, by engaging in discussions about them. For example, a wife can ask her husband about a book he has read or ask him to recommend a book for her, then discuss its content with him. These discussions break the barrier of silence and increase understanding and affection. It is also important to practice "active listening" to show interest in the husband's words, and to utilize travel times or home sittings for dialogue instead of being preoccupied with other matters. However, if there is social phobia, characterized by fear or anxiety when speaking in front of strangers, it is advisable to consult a female psychiatrist for treatment.

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