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What is the ruling on a wife supplicating for her husband's death, and feigning love for him to avoid his evil, while he refuses to divorce her and commits forbidden acts such as insulting religion and demanding to watch pornographic films, along with her fear for the fate of her children should she divorce him?

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It is advisable to supplicate for the husband's guidance instead of supplicating against him. However, it is permissible to supplicate against him, asking Allah to protect you from his evil, while adhering to the Shariah guidelines for supplicating against an oppressor. The wife is permitted to seek divorce or khul' if she cannot continue the marital life with him. Cursing the religion and the Lord constitutes disbelief, which results in the separation of the wife from her husband, with details regarding their reunion if he repents before the 'iddah expires. The wife must not obey him in sins, and it is preferable for the wife's father to intervene if the husband persists in harming her.

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