What is the solution to the problem of a wife's neglect of her husband in bed and the lack of understanding between them?

It is necessary to identify the causes of misunderstanding between the spouses and try to resolve them. If they are unable to do so, they should seek the help of a third party. It is forbidden for a woman to refuse her husband's bed without a valid excuse. If a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. Both spouses are advised to fear Allah and to treat each other with kindness.