Is the husband's claim that his wife's ambition and professional status are negative, and that her primary role should be a homemaker, correct? And will Allah forgive him for his statement: "I didn't know these circumstances would bother me to this extent until I experienced them"? And is it better to end the marriage so that the children can grow up in a respectful atmosphere?

Regarding the husband's request for his wife to leave her job, if the wife stipulated continuation of her work at the time of the marriage contract, the husband must fulfill this condition, and he is not permitted to prevent her from working, provided she adheres to the Sharia guidelines. However, if there was no such condition, the husband has the right for her to dedicate herself to him and to the affairs of their home, even if this leads to her leaving work entirely.

As for the husband threatening divorce and insulting his wife, this is impermissible and contrary to Allah's command to treat wives with kindness. His description of his assistance to his wife as diminishing his status is baseless; rather, it is among noble character traits and emulation of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him.

The wife is advised to be patient and overlook her husband's harms, seeking reward from Allah, while advising him and reminding him of Allah's command and following the example of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. She should be cautious about hastening to divorce due to its severe consequences.