Is it permissible to seek divorce due to the husband's neglect of intercourse, his reliance on dreams to satisfy his urges, and the absence of understanding or a shared life, which has negatively affected the wife's psyche and femininity?

A husband must ensure his wife's chastity and satisfy her instinctive desire in a reasonable manner. This is more obligatory than feeding her. The soundest opinion is that the obligatory intercourse is commensurate with the wife's need and the husband's ability. We advise you to be patient, to be a good wife, to adorn yourself for your husband, to frankly tell him what bothers you, and to try to find common ground between you. If conditions do not improve after these attempts, then there is no sin upon you in seeking a divorce.