How can one acquire social and emotional intelligence to attract people and overcome their avoidance?

Elevating social intelligence requires a scientific effort to understand noble character traits and the best ways to deal with backbiting and hypocrisy, and a practical effort through consistent good conduct, striving against one's lower self, repelling evil with what is better, and patiently enduring harm. The best guidance in this regard is the conduct of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, in his interactions with people. The book "How He Treated Them" by Sheikh Muhammad Salih Al-Munajjid is recommended.