Is it considered unlawful for an engaged couple to speak on the phone with the parents' knowledge? And is what happened to the girl, being raped in her childhood, considered a submission to God's decree? If not, what should she do?

Perhaps one does not realize the true wisdom behind God's trials until the Day of Judgment, when the immense reward prepared for the patient will be revealed to them. Your story carries lessons for parents regarding their responsibility towards their children, as many cases of assault come from relatives. Therefore, caution and precaution must be exercised, and the principle of blocking the means [to evil] should be followed, along with separating children in beds after the age of ten. Parents must also check on their children's well-being and encourage them to be open.

As for the young man, his acceptance of what happened to you is a blessing from God. However, the continuation of conversations between you before the marriage contract is a mistake and forbidden, as there is no legitimate relationship between you. The contract must be completed or communication cut off until he graduates. If he does not respond, then be cautious, for his intention might be mere amusement. You are not required to inform any suitor about what happened to you, as virginity can be lost for other reasons.