Is the aforementioned Hadith from the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him: "A certain woman passed by me, and a desire for women entered my heart. So I went to one of my wives and fulfilled my need with her. So do likewise, for indeed, among your most excellent deeds is lawful intercourse," authentic? And if it is authentic, how could the Prophet look with such a forbidden lustful gaze?
The problem of taking isolated historical narratives and specific situations as a basis for beliefs and principles is one of the most significant intellectual pitfalls. Many of these narratives may be influenced by the circumstances of the narration or the perception of the narrators, or they may contain flaws in their text (matn) or chain of transmission (isnad), in addition to not considering the social, economic, or political context of the narration, which causes confusion in understanding them. Beliefs and principles must be built on sound pillars and firm foundations represented by unambiguous and constant texts, not on individual incidents and narratives.
Regarding the story mentioned, it raises several questions, including: Is it not possible that the Prophet's (peace be upon him) gaze was the first gaze? And why is the story forced to bear what it cannot, taking its meaning out of its natural and acceptable context? He is a human being from among the children of Adam, and it is natural for his eye to fall upon one of the women, after which he resorts to the lawful among his wives. This indicates his merit and high standing, for the purest white garment shows the slightest black spot. And even if the story were true, it would be among the virtues of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and proofs of his high standing, as it demonstrates his disdain for and transcendence above the slightest blemish that might touch the purity of his chastity.
Moreover, there is research and consideration regarding the authenticity of this story. Many hadith scholars have concluded that it did not occur to the Prophet (peace be upon him), but rather to the Companion who narrated it. This is known in the science of hadith as "ta'leel al-marfu' bil-mawquf" (attributing a marfu' hadith's flaw to its mawquf origin), in addition to other defects in the chain of transmission. Thus, the most apparent conclusion is the lack of authentic attribution of the mentioned incident to the Prophet (peace be upon him), and that Imam Muslim's inclusion of it indicates the authenticity of the original hadith, which is the verbal part, not the entire story. And assuming its authenticity, its correct interpretation has already been clarified.
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