How can a wife deal with her husband's accusations of her being arrogant and conceited, especially when she sees herself as obedient to him in multiple aspects of their lives, while he views her behavior during arguments—such as screaming and raising her voice—as evidence of this?

It is obligatory for both spouses to communicate in a way that strengthens their marital bonds, and for each to avoid raising their voice at the other. This is because raising one's voice at a spouse might be perceived as arrogance or belittling. However, the husband should address this in the best possible manner.