Did the husband die pleased with his wife, who prioritized her parents' satisfaction over his, despite her knowledge of the virtue of his pleasure with her?

A wife should observe the rights of her husband and her parents. The husband's right takes precedence over the parents' right. If you were unaware of this ruling, there is no sin upon you. Take it easy on yourself and turn to the obedience of your Lord, for the Shari'ah has forbidden wishing for death. Instead, increase your performance of good deeds. A woman will be with her last husband in Paradise in the hereafter. Finally, we advise you not to turn away from marriage and to accept whoever proposes to you from among those whose religiosity and character are pleasing.