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Is it permissible for the wife's father to prevent the husband from contacting his wife, sitting with her, or going out with her during the عقد (marriage contract) period and before consummation, and is the husband entitled to demand that?

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The husband has possession of his wife immediately upon the conclusion of the legitimate marriage contract. He has the right to be alone with her, speak with her, and go out with her. Some scholars hold the view that it is not permissible to prevent the husband from consummating the marriage with his wife after the dowry has been paid, except for a valid reason such as the wife's young age or her travel. The questioner agreed with his wife's family to postpone the wedding and consummation for four months, not to prevent communication and conversation. Although he has the right to communicate with her, he should understand her father's concern for his daughter's and family's reputation, and he should exercise patience and gentleness, avoiding disputes. He may seek assistance from some good people or scholars to mediate and resolve the matter wisely.

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