How should a wife deal with her husband who tried to kiss her in public, admitted to masturbating and having a previous phone sex relationship, and insists on being alone with her in a hotel before the wedding, knowing that the wife wishes to forgive him and earn reward?

The young man made a mistake by telling you about his previous relationship with his fiancée, and he should conceal his own sins if he committed any. If the young man repents, he should not be taken to task for it. Masturbation is a bad and reprehensible habit with negative consequences. His kissing you in a public place is contrary to modesty and chivalry. His request to go to a hotel to be alone with you is impermissible; a husband does not consummate the marriage with his wife until after the wedding, as is customary. Consummation should be hastened to avoid prohibitions and temptations.