Why have I become an outcast in society for not advising women who do not wear the hijab and for hating backbiting, despite Allah's promise of love for those who follow guidance?

Allah places acceptance and love in the hearts of the righteous for those who obey Him and perform good deeds, as He, the Almighty, says: (Indeed, those who have believed and done righteous deeds - the Most Merciful will appoint for them affection) [Maryam: 96]. The Hadith Qudsi confirms that if Allah loves a servant, He calls Gabriel, then the inhabitants of the heavens, to love him, and then acceptance is placed for him on Earth. This acceptance and love are found among the righteous, not among all creation. Therefore, a believer must remain steadfast in obedience and patient in it, and not be concerned with the hatred of the wicked. Rather, he should advise them to do good and forbid evil, and interact with all people with the excellent morals of Islam.