How can a girl come to love housework and perform it with a good disposition, especially on days when she feels sad and lacks energy?

A daughter's help to her mother in household matters is essential, and it trains her for married life. This is aided by reminding oneself of the great reward for helping one's parents, as it involves filial piety that pleases Allah, and that patience in obedience carries a great reward. Also, habituating oneself to not sleeping after Fajr by sleeping early and avoiding staying up late. And maintaining daily remembrance (adhkar), especially the remembrances of sleeping and waking, due to their effect in strengthening the body and alleviating fatigue.