What is the Shar'i opinion regarding the completion of a marriage between a girl and a man who is excessively doubtful, prevents her from going out, and threatens to leave her in limbo, especially since his doubt and hesitation persist despite attempts at reconciliation, and the suggestion of re-contracting the marriage with a new contract and conditions, and placing the 'ismah (right to divorce) in her hand?
Jealousy, when in its rightful place, is a manifestation of true masculinity. In it lies the protection of honor and the safeguarding of sacred trusts. It is an indicator of the strength and firmness of faith.
However, jealousy can be blameworthy if it exceeds its limits, becoming a bane for the person and those around him. Souls may perish due to rumors and deadly jealousy.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) forbade scrutinizing the missteps of family members and warned against a man excessively tracking his wife's movements and stillness, for that corrupts the marital relationship.
In the case of the husband mentioned, his jealousy is excessive and goes beyond bounds, causing embarrassment and distress to the wife.
The wedding can be postponed for a period. During this time, the husband should be reminded of the fear of Allah and warned of the consequences of injustice. He should also be presented to specialized doctors, while seeking help from Allah and supplicating.
If matters improve, the wedding can proceed. If they do not improve, divorce is the optimal solution before complications arise and children are born.
The advice to remarry and stipulate new conditions is not beneficial, because the first contract is binding and cannot be annulled except by divorce or through a judge.
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