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Is a wife permitted to refuse to travel with her husband to his workplace if his accommodation causes her illness?

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Scholars have differed on the issue of a wife traveling with her husband. The preponderant view is that she must accompany him and relocate with him even if she dislikes it, as long as the husband provides her with a suitable life and she feels safe regarding herself and her property, based on the verse: "Lodge them where you lodge, according to your means." (65:6). Some Hanafi jurists, however, dissented, permitting a wife to refuse travel with her husband due to the corruption of the times and her lack of safety.

In summary: A wife must travel with her husband wherever he wishes, provided that the husband is trustworthy, and he relocates her to a place where she feels safe regarding herself and her property and will not be harmed by the relocation.

The husband must provide suitable lodging during travel or residence, where the wife feels safe regarding herself, her property, and her privacy. Jurists differed on the standard of lodging. The Shafi'is held that it should be customary for the wife, while the Hanbalis held that it should be commensurate with their financial situation, whether affluent or straitened.

The conclusion is: A wife must travel with her husband if he is trustworthy and will provide her with suitable lodging. However, if the lodging is unsuitable to the extent that she fears harm, she is not obligated to travel, but should ask him to provide suitable lodging. The wife should be considerate of her husband and cooperate with him.

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