What are the rights of children over parents in the Quran and Sunnah, apart from choosing a righteous mother, religious education, choosing a good name, and treating them justly? And does a child's right over their mother change if she discriminates in treatment between her children? And how should the wronged child deal with their mother who refuses discussion and accuses them of hatred?
Children have rights over their parents, including, according to the more preponderant opinion, equality in giving gifts. Favoring some children over others without a legitimate religious reason is reprehensible. It is recommended to be just among them, even in emotional matters. The son must be dutiful and kind to his mother regardless of her actions. There is no blame upon him for a heartfelt dislike of her wrong actions, while being careful not to be disobedient to her. The son is advised to be patient and to supplicate for his mother, and to seek help from close relatives if necessary, and to avoid arguing with her if she does not accept it. The son should seek the reasons for his mother's change in attitude towards him, as it might be due to his own shortcomings, disobedience, or a misunderstanding, and then address each reason appropriately.
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