Does seeking scientific and social compatibility between a man and a woman for choosing a life partner contradict the Prophetic Hadith: "If someone whose دين (religious commitment) and خُلُق (moral character) you approve comes to you, then marry him"?
Islam encourages considering character and religiosity when marrying. Whoever possesses these qualities has fulfilled the most important conditions. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "If someone whose character and religiosity you are pleased with comes to you [seeking marriage], then marry him. If you do not do so, there will be tribulation on earth and widespread corruption," and "A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty, and for her religion. So, succeed with the religious woman, may your hands be dusted." Religiosity ensures the continuation of married life, and this does not preclude considering other qualities that may affect marriage, such as compatibility in psychological, intellectual, economic, and social aspects. Religion should be prioritized over other qualities.
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