How can one reconcile marriage, its burdens, and the pursuit of knowledge?

The Muslim woman is rational and manages her affairs by reconciling the interests of this world and the Hereafter. Like men, she seeks knowledge and attends its gatherings. Indeed, the female Companions used to ask the Prophet (peace be upon him) to dedicate a day for them to acquire knowledge. A woman might face challenges when getting married, leading her to believe that it obstructs the pursuit of knowledge. However, marriage is the tradition of the Messengers, and marriage does not prevent the pursuit of knowledge, nor does the pursuit of knowledge prevent marriage. Rather, a wise person combines both through good management, balancing affairs and dedicating to each matter what is specific to it. Both marriage and the pursuit of knowledge require money, effort, and time. Muslim men and women divide these between the two matters with moderation and balance. After marriage, a wife must obey her husband in what is good and reside in her home. She can utilize modern means to seek knowledge, but her primary concern should be to obey her husband and treat him well, for the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will be told to enter Paradise from any of its gates she wishes." The husband must assist his wife in seeking religious knowledge and encourage her in it, and not occupy all her time with household matters.