Anger and Patience
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What is the ruling on someone who changed his statements before the police and denied uttering abusive language, which he had said, intending to confess later to avoid a "Ghamus" oath?
What is the legitimate interpretation of the delusions and obsessions that a person experiences, which prohibit him from marrying women due to a previous experience, and what is the ruling on one who imagines that he has forbidden a woman to himself, and does that affect the validity of the marriage, and what is the ruling on one who swore not to marry a woman with a specific characteristic, and then that characteristic appeared to him?
What is the ruling on not fulfilling a deceased person's will that his daughter not enter upon him, and what is his daughter's position regarding this anger?
Is the questioner sinful for her hatred and anger towards her grandmother, who insults people and talks about them behind their backs, even though she knows that her grandmother suffers from forgetfulness?
Why didn't Allah answer my prayer to marry her, since she was not destined for me, and is it permissible for me to pray against her after my engagement to another?
How can one advise a person on the necessity of sincere inner forgiveness from the heart towards people and patience with their harm, and not merely outward forgiveness?
How can I improve my character and my devotion to my parents, and what are the consequences of bad character and hypocrisy in improving them?
How can one deal with parental disobedience and mutual insults at an advanced age, especially when the children feel guilty after their reactions?
What is the ruling on shunning relatives who cause problems and harm, practice magic, steal property, and spread false rumors, and is it permissible to order one's parents to avoid them? And what is the ruling on these actions of theirs in Islam?
What is the ruling on my continuing to sit with the girl I intend to marry – after finishing my studies – from time to time in front of people, knowing that our conversation does not exceed the bounds of propriety and does not involve treachery or impropriety? And what is the ruling on my studying at a mixed-gender university, and what is the fatwa that would bring peace to my heart and mind concerning it, taking into account that I lower my gaze as much as possible and constantly seek Allah's forgiveness, and that moral deviations are widespread in Arab universities in general?
Is not conceiving after a miscarriage a sign of God's wrath?
ما هي آداب الحديث والاستماع من الكتاب والسنة؟
Is what the cousin did, in fabricating a fictional character for a young man and concocting a story of his death, considered lying and deceit, pardonable? And is it obligatory to maintain ties with her after her lies were exposed and she persisted in denial, despite the severe psychological harm she caused to the sister and the family?
What is the interpretation of the intense nervous temperament that causes those around the questioner to avoid dealing with him, despite his diligence in prayer, and what is the cure?
Am I obligated to visit my brother who used to beat me and my mother, especially after he was afflicted with a mental illness?
Is the questioner considered a severer of kinship ties for not wishing to visit her husband's family after the mistreatment she endured from them and their refusal to deal with her and her daughter? And what is the religious ruling on the behavior of the husband's family?
In light of the current global circumstances, how can a person be sure that they are on the truth, truly a believer, truly a Muslim, and of good character? And are simple actions like removing harm from the road or feeding a cat considered good character or faith? And will the doer be rewarded for them even if they did them out of imitation?
Is it considered Islamically commendable to increase supererogatory prayers and supplicate for the forgiveness and guidance of one's oppressor, or is it a blameworthy affectation?
What is the ruling on someone who feels hatred towards their parents, who do not understand them, prefer their siblings over them, and do not accept their religious advice, despite knowing that disobedience to parents is one of the major sins?
What is the ruling on joking that involves accusing parents of being lost and attempting to sell one of them to buy land, and what is the solution for dealing with the parents' anger towards the wife because of this joke?
Is it permissible to seek forgiveness for Muslim men and women with the intention of benefiting them, and to seek forgiveness for one's parents with the intention of honoring them when one is unable to control anger or visit them due to social phobia, and because the mother does not visit her relatives?
What is the ruling of Islamic law regarding a wife staying with her husband in his family's home, given that she is subjected to theft by his sister, and her husband does not intervene for fear of his mother's anger?
What is the ruling on saying "al-Dahiya" (the calamity/mastermind) about the Mushaf, and does it necessitate an expiation?
Is the death of a young man in a car accident a punishment for him and his parents for their sins, and how can the family help the deceased to have a better life in the Hereafter?