Anger and Patience
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What should a young man do who broke off his engagement to his paternal uncle's daughter, and now wishes to return to her despite the refusal of his father and his uncle, and what is the advice for parents in this situation?
What is the ruling on a Muslim who withholds judgment regarding a Muslim who resorted to unlawful courts after his wife was raped, and is his resorting to them considered coercion? What is the ruling on a Muslim if he prostrates to an idol out of fear for his wealth or himself, while intending the prostration for Allah? And is it permissible to prostrate to an idol without coercion, intending the prostration for Allah?
How can a Muslim woman elevate herself religiously and avoid major sins, especially after committing to the hijab, while feeling no progress?
How can one deal with an 18-year-old son who is characterized by disobedience, lying, stealing, associating with bad companions, not performing prayers, assaulting his mother verbally and physically, in addition to neglecting his studies?
Is the person who invoked a car accident upon someone after nearly being run over by him considered sinful, even though the accident occurred without the person being harmed, and only his vehicle was damaged, and because the person was driving at high speed in a residential area?
Is what the questioner is experiencing considered a trial that she must resist, or does she need to visit a psychiatrist, especially given her rejection of her husband's approach despite her feeling that she must obey him, and his change in dealing with her after she became more religious, and his anger at her religious practices, and his neglect of prayer, and her desire to separate from him?
What is the religious ruling on dealing with a person who insults the questioner and some members of his family with obscene language, and is it permissible to deter him by fighting?
Will forgiveness for the sin be achieved by enduring the harm and gloating of coworkers who found out about the lapse of watching pornographic websites, or will not confronting them make them persist in their abuse?
What is the ruling of Islamic law concerning the harsh treatment of parents and their disavowal of their daughter, despite her service to them, and their leveling of false accusations against her, and what should the daughter do in such a situation?
Is it considered a lie to show that one has not forgiven family and relatives—who backbite and wrong the questioner—with the aim of deterring them, while the questioner has inwardly forgiven them?
Is a woman who gets angry during her menstrual period and a few days before it considered sinful, and does charity atone for this anger?
What is the ruling on describing the son's condition as "very cold-blooded" to the extent that the mother "slapped me on my face," and what is the expiation for this act, and what is the ruling on a mother supplicating against her children during an argument?
How can one deal with a father who instigates disputes with his family, especially his wife, and does not listen to them, and treats them poorly despite going out for Da‘wah (Islamic proselytizing)?
How can one get rid of watching pornography, despite being a student of knowledge, married, and having a mosque where he delivers lessons and sermons, and what are the proposed solutions to overcome this recurring sin?
Is it forbidden to boycott a father who has abandoned my mother, does not speak to her, and does not eat or sit with us, and what should I do to fix the situation?
What is the ruling of Sharia on a situation that unfolds between a wife and her husband's mother, where the mother accuses the wife of mistreatment and disrespect, while the wife denies it, leaving the husband in a dilemma between pleasing his mother and not wronging his wife? And what should the husband do so as not to displease his parents while his wife has committed no wrong? And is it forbidden for the mother to ask her son to choose between her and his wife?
What are the sayings and remembrances (dhikr) that bring comfort to the soul and peace to the heart when recalling past injustices, or when seeing the one who wronged me, especially after being accused of theft in high school and the resulting psychological pain and the continued circulation of the story among people?
Is expiation required for one who swore falsely to her father to avoid his anger at her sister, knowing that Sheikh Abdul Rahman Khalif fatwa was that it is an Al-Ghamus oath for which there is no expiation other than seeking forgiveness?
What is the ruling on one who spits at people when angry? Thank you.
What is the ruling of Islamic law regarding a deceased mother's will that stipulated that one of her sons should not attend her washing or funeral, due to her anger with him, and is there any sin upon the son who carries out this will?
Does a man slapping and insulting a woman after completing the Hajj rituals and before the Farewell circumambulation—as a result of the woman assaulting him and his family—affect his Hajj? Does it entail blood money or anything other than repentance and seeking forgiveness?
What is the ruling on aborting a fetus in the first month if the mother fears a recurrence of her previous suffering?
What is the ruling regarding a husband who curses his Muslim wife in anger and refuses to stop doing so?
How was Ali ibn Abi Talib killed? Did he burn anyone? What were the conflicts during his reign? And why did he move the caliphate to Kufa?