Anger and Patience
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ما هي الآيات والأحاديث التي تتناول فضل الصبر؟
How do I get rid of the obsessive-compulsive disorder that drives me to curse and swear at myself and my parents, especially during prayer and when I am alone?
Is it permissible for a Muslim to say the supplication, "O Allah, if I have reviled any believer, then make that a means of closeness for him to You on the Day of Resurrection" for one who has reviled another, and is this supplication specific to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)?
What is the ruling of Islamic law concerning a mother who discriminates among her children in giving gifts and in treatment, severs ties with her daughter, and refuses to be just between them, despite knowing that it is obligatory?
Does a wife's feeling of being wronged by her husband and her supplication against him, despite her love for him, anger God?
1. Does the hatred resulting from the husband's anger give the wife the right to seek divorce? 2. What is the ruling of Islamic law on a husband's insistence that his wife travel to live with him despite her disapproval? 3. Is it forbidden for a wife to refuse to travel to live with her husband, even if the reason is her unwillingness to be alone with her son in the husband's absence? 4. What is the Sharia-compliant advice for the husband in this situation?
What is the ruling on what the questioner said: "This speech is forbidden, it is as if you are telling our Lord, 'Praise yourself, for I have dressed like this'"? And what is the expiation for this statement if it is wrong?
What is the ruling if a man enjoined his sons not to marry their daughters to their relatives due to an incident that occurred with him, then one of the relatives - whose religious commitment and character are pleasing - proposed to one of his daughters after the father's death?
Is shunning a friend who caused harm and "slander" for a year, while refusing to renew the friendship out of fear of their past behavior recurring, considered the kind of shunning that prevents good deeds from being accepted, and does it entail sin?
How can one deal with an angry mother who curses her son and feels discriminated against in the way she is treated, and does not believe his difficult financial situation, and mocks his religious views, which makes him think about shunning her?
Is sighing with a loud exhale permissible in Islamic law?
Does Allah forgive the sin of one who abandoned prayer and has passed away, knowing that he was a monotheist, a Muslim, and of good character? And can anything be done for him after his death, other than supplication, to expiate his sin?
Does divorce occur by saying "Okay" when the wife requests a divorce, or by saying "Take your daughter, I no longer want her" to her father during anger? Is the husband sinful for refraining from visiting his wife's family as a reciprocal action for her refraining from visiting his family? And what do you advise a husband who hates his wife and curses her due to her mistreatment of his family, while recalling the noble verse: "And if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good"?
How can one deal with a nervous wife who verbally abuses and attacks her husband?
To what extent does a person patiently endure injustice, and is continued patience amidst severe suffering considered a [rewardable] form of endurance or an incapacity?
Can one's rank with the Prophet (peace be upon him) in Paradise change after being promised it, due to anger or any simple act?
Would a girl agree to marry someone she met and loved through online chat, or would she marry someone who proposed to her but whom she doesn't accept?
Does reciting "Iddat Yasin" against an oppressor or aggressor lead to an immediate punishment from God, such as loss of wealth or death?
How can I protect myself from my manager's treachery at work and rely on God to facilitate my affairs?
How can one restore faith and strength after a series of harsh experiences and divorce, and a feeling of being lost and returning to some bad practices, knowing that God tests those whom He loves?
How can I deal with my sharp-tongued mother-in-law who lives with us, taking into account my husband's anger if I respond to her, and my desire to move to an independent home despite my husband's financial inability to do so?
How can the Quranic command to ignore the ignorant be reconciled with the prophets' persistence in inviting their people, despite their rejection of the truth, as seen in the story of Noah (peace be upon him)?
Is it obligatory to put up with a wife who bore false witness and caused her husband to be humiliated and imprisoned, or is it better to separate from her in order to protect himself, his children, and his wealth?
Is someone who claims commitment to Islam but steals people's money considered a Muslim, and if so, is it permissible to abandon Islam because of the actions of such individuals?