Anger and Patience
746 questions
Is it permissible to destroy the house of one who destroyed my house and caused my divorce, in accordance with the noble verse: "So whoever commits aggression against you, aggress against him in like measure as he aggressed against you"?
What should I do about my parents' continuous prayers against me, and my feeling that God is answering their prayers, which is causing me misery and illness in my life?
Is it permissible for a Muslim to strike another Muslim who has struck him?
What is the ruling on one who curses Allah, the Almighty and All-Majestic, while in a state of anger?
What should I do with my wife who has been estranged from her brother for ten years, and her father died while he was angry with her, and my attempts to convince her to mend family ties have caused problems between us that almost led to separation, especially since we live in America and have two children?
Is it permissible for a father to take a portion of his son's money to marry off his siblings, knowing that the son needs this money to secure the future of his children?
Is the wife entitled to seek divorce or go to her family's home after the husband repeatedly abuses her physically and psychologically, threatens her with beating, and attempts to silence her by force?
Why does a mother differentiate in the treatment of her children, which arouses a feeling of hatred in a son despite his dutifulness towards her?
What is the ruling on a woman who, in a state of severe anger, said: "It is forbidden for me to eat such-and-such in my house"? And is expiation due upon her if she eats of this thing?
How can one deal with a person who claims to offer assistance with employment and publicizes it, causing severe psychological distress and thoughts of leaving one's job?
Is a man's saying "No Fatiha, no Ghamiqah," in a context of anger, considered apostasy, knowing that the intention was not to mock the Surah? And is it obligatory for a repentant person to make up past acts of worship?
Does the cursing that came from the pilgrim to preserve the sanctity of Hajj, due to the ill-treatment they received from the driver, invalidate the Hajj?
What is the amount of blood money (diyyah) for a man and a woman, and what is the ruling of Islamic law if the killer's family is unable to pay it? Does any harm befall the deceased from this?
Is the poverty that occurred due to the father's prayer against his son?
Is it obligatory to apologize to a former girlfriend who was wronged because she was left, and is that a reason for not conceiving?
Am I sinful for my emotional reactions towards my mother, which might be a response to my grandmother's supplication that my mother experiences in her daughter what she did to her, and how can I دفع هذا التغير في طبعي والخمول الذي يمنعني من التفوق العلمي (ward off this change in my character and the lethargy that prevents me from academic excellence)?
How can the Hadith: "Knowledge is acquired through learning, and forbearance through striving for it" be applied to overcome rapid stress and excessive emotional reactions in various life situations?
What is the ruling on a wife's refusal to fulfill her husband's right to intimacy due to her lack of attraction to his appearance, or his lack of romanticism or expression of love?
What is the way to deal with the family's rejection of a young man who has become Sunni in a Shiite family, and the intense grief he experiences because of that?
Is what the questioner did towards her mother who committed suicide a sin, and what is the ruling on suicide and the fate of its perpetrator?
Does a father's displeasure with his son, even though the son has not wronged his father, prevent him from entering Paradise?
When is forgiveness a virtue and when is it a weakness, and how can courage and forbearance be combined, taking into account surrounding circumstances and avoiding throwing oneself into perdition?
Did the questioner commit a sin by supplicating against her husband's brother's household and their daughter due to the injustice she experienced, and will Allah hold her accountable for that, knowing that she was in a state of anger and did not intend to harm them but rather to ward off their harm from her?
What is the ruling on a wife threatening her husband by saying, "I will make you spin around yourself; I will make you like shoes" after 23 years of marriage?