Anger and Patience
746 questions
Is the narration of Ibn Mas’ud, "If you see your brother committing a sin, do not be allies of Satan against him...", which was transmitted by Al-Tabarani in Makarim al-Akhlaq, authentic?
Does quarreling with a husband who masturbates, watches pornography, suffers from erectile dysfunction, and excessively takes sleeping pills contradict patience and affect the acceptance of good deeds, especially since he usually does not seek conjugal relations?
What does a person gain from forgiving oppressors and those who insult them in this world, and do they earn good deeds from that, or is it better to wait until the Day of Judgment to take their due from the oppressors' good deeds?
Was he mistaken in not striking the thief, or was it excessive kindness? And should he treat people in kind, or with forgiveness? And what about demanding a large sum of money as ransom for the neighbor's son? And what should he generally do in this situation?
Does sin fall upon one who curses Allah unintentionally as a result of intense anger?
How can I get rid of the habit of cursing that I've recently developed, and am I sinful for what I uttered previously?
What is the appropriate action to take towards a colleague who insulted me in front of students? And how do I deal with the delay of my master's thesis due to the obstinacy of the supervisors and the manager who hates me, and are there specific supplications for that?
What is the ruling on the wording of vows that include: a vow to seek forgiveness after watching movies and TV series, with conditions for an increase upon forgetting or delaying; a vow to seek forgiveness for every insult; a vow to fast two consecutive days upon masturbating; a vow to seek forgiveness for every open sin; and a vow to read a page of the Quran daily? Are these intentions and wordings permissible in Sharia? Is sincere repentance valid along with performing the aforementioned expiations and refraining from making vows in the future?
Is it permissible to supplicate for guidance for the oppressors?
Is raising one's voice when angry or not responding gently considered injustice, even though I do not curse or insult?
Is it possible that the cause of continuous stagnation, and the failure to complete a marriage or a job, is sorcery (sihr), and what is the appropriate treatment for such a condition?
Will a person be held accountable who harms others by word and deed, and is not forgiven, especially if the victim feels humiliated and wronged and cannot retaliate due to their weak personality?
What is the appropriate stance to take towards a friend who, through the questioner's actions, caused harm by entering into an unlawful relationship with his sister, and is this considered an injustice and a violation of people's rights, and what is the way to forgive him and mend the relationship?
Is it permissible to address foul-mouthed relatives with the words of Allah Almighty: "Peace be upon you; we seek not the ignorant," to ward off their harm, and can their visits be reduced to once a week despite the mother's frequent requests for visits and her anger upon refusal?
Does not feeling guilt after repeated transgressions in the relationship with the fiancé indicate Allah's wrath and the questioner's expulsion from His mercy, and how can she restore her sense of guilt and Allah's رضا (pleasure)?
Is the exhaustion we experienced after marriage and the delayed pregnancy due to the evil eye, and what should I do?
Does a divorce occur when a husband says, "You are divorced" in a state of anger, knowing that the wife is remorseful and repentant and wishes to continue the marital life, and how can she regain her husband's trust and forgiveness?
Is it permissible to leave money with a procrastinating debtor and not demand it back, hoping for compensation from Allah in this world and the Hereafter?
What is the ruling on expelling a relative who wronged my mother in her youth and caused her a psychological illness, knowing that she is unable to expel him or confront him?
Will Allah hold one accountable for a supplication made against oneself in a moment of anger between the Adhan and the Iqamah?
What should the questioner do for her mother to forgive her for something she did not do, which made her not love her as much as her sisters, even though she treated her kindly in her last days?
What is the expiation for a female student taking money from her mother for luxuries without her knowledge, and how can she seek God's forgiveness and avoid her mother's anger?
Is a father entitled to refuse his son's marriage to a girl of good character and religion, whom the son met online, and would the son be considered disobedient to his father if he marries her without his approval?
What is the ruling on saying to oneself, "What is this filth that one is in?" during moments of extreme distress, followed by seeking forgiveness, and is this considered unlawful discontent?