Anger and Patience
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How should one act regarding a father's request for a sum of money to invest, given a previous experience where the money was not recovered, the son's desire to secure his money, and the fear of incurring the father's anger?
What is the ruling on insulting a driver with "son of a whore" and what is its expiation?
Is it considered a sin for the husband's mother not to repay the amount she borrowed from him to purchase a clinic for his brother, despite the husband's need for the money for his children's education and expenses, and does this necessitate the wife feeling anger and a lack of inner peace towards them?
What is the ruling on returning evil with evil against the Prophet's Household (Ahl al-Bayt) and not forgiving them their transgressions against our rights? And does harming them anger the Prophet (peace be upon him)? And can the Prophet (peace be upon him) hate anyone without a legitimate Shar'i reason?
How can "those who suppress their rage" be achieved without suffering psychological harm over time, and how can this be reconciled with self-defense, and what books or articles can be read to enhance this understanding?
Is it permissible to offer condolences to Christians, and how would it be done if permissible?
Is it necessary to seek forgiveness or to rectify past wrongs through good treatment after things have returned to normal between the parties, especially after sincere repentance?
Is a husband entitled to squander a large sum of money on new clothes so his brother can see them, then gift them to his sister, while knowing his wife and children are in need of it?
Is a person sinful for raising his voice at his family and calling them ignorant, because they accuse him of being extreme due to his preventing his sister from speaking to someone?
What are the principles for proposing to the sister of a friend, especially when the friend is her guardian and his anger is feared?
Is a daughter obligated to fulfill all requests of her father who habitually shouts and raises his voice, and believes that his son's wife puts magic in his food?
Is insulting or cursing religion in a state of anger considered a major sin, what is the repentance for it, and how should one deal with such a situation?
Is a daughter's saying to her father, "My Lord, you are stingy," considered an act of disobedience that necessitates remorse and fear of the father's not forgiving her?
What are the simple deeds that can be done to obtain great reward, and do performing rak'ahs before sleep suffice for Qiyam al-Layl, and is there a reward for illness?
Is it true that matters such as extreme anger, extreme joy, extreme sadness, crying, fear, excessive panic, excessive thinking and obsessive whispering, anxiety, despair, isolation, negative thoughts, and sins, invalidate and nullify spiritual protection (tahseen), given that it is said this has been proven by experience?
What can be done to resolve the marital problem of a wife neglecting her husband due to the burdens of motherhood and childcare, and the resulting deterioration in her relationship with her husband?
Is the wife considered sinful for angering her father, who slandered her husband in front of her, due to her defending her husband and his right to care for her?
Does a person die a disbeliever if he curses the Lord in a moment of anger, despite his regular prayer and piety, or does Allah forgive him due to the state of anger?
Is it permissible to return an insult in kind, such as insulting someone with their illness in response to their insulting me with a defect I have, and will I be afflicted if I respond to him, and am I entitled to supplicate against him because he was the one who initiated it?
Does a divorce take place with the husband's statement: "You are divorced" after the wife's question: "Do you want a divorce?" and her answer with "Yes," knowing that this is the first divorce, and it occurred during the period of fasting?
To what extent is it obligatory for a wife to remind her husband of what is right if his faith is weaker than hers, and what are the limits of patience with him, taking into consideration his causing tension in the marital relationship, his habit of threatening divorce, and his actions that may not be in accordance with Sharia?
Is it permissible to seek a divorce from a husband who has illicit relationships with women?
How sound is the statement that the height of the people of Paradise will be sixty cubits, like the height of Adam; their beauty like the beauty of Yusuf; their age between thirty and thirty-three, like the age of Isa; the sweetness of their voices like the voice of Dawud; their forgiveness and tolerance like the forgiveness of Yaqub; their patience like the patience of Ayyub; and their morals and customs like the morals and customs of Muhammad, peace be upon him?
Does divorce occur due to ejaculation during foreplay after swearing "By triple divorce, I will not approach you for a month" with the intention of divorce and disciplining the wife? And what is the ruling on going to the wife's family after swearing "By divorce from you, I will not reach them at all" with the intention of preventing oneself and not effecting divorce?