Anger and Patience
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What is the ruling on saying: "I will not absolve you if you do such and such," and what is the meaning of this phrase?
Is it sufficient to limit oneself to greeting one's parents with "peace" (Salam) to avoid disobeying them, especially when angry, after previous attempts to improve the relationship with them?
What is the solution for getting rid of the inclination towards homosexuality and the depression resulting from it, which sometimes leads to abandoning prayer and not reading the Qur'an?
Is a general message of seeking forgiveness for those I have backbitten sufficient, instead of directly asking for their forgiveness, in order to avoid their anger or severing ties with them?
What is the position and view of Islamic law regarding what a Muslim should do towards neighbors who curse him and insult his wife, and what is the ruling of Islamic law on him retaliating against them in kind?
Did I err in saying to the student, "Are we not your brothers?" after he objected to the teacher's تحديد (determining/setting) of the curriculum for the class, stipulating that other classes should not be informed?
How do I achieve: "Deal with people with good character"? And what are its signs?
Is it permissible to marry another woman? And do the patience and kindness of the husband negate his mistakes in striking his wife, knowing the details of the marital disputes that ended with the wife's unresponsiveness to reconciliation efforts?
Is a young man considered undutiful to his parents if he refuses to marry a girl they choose for him, and this results in their anger and the young man leaving the home?
What is the ruling on someone who, in anger over the loss of money, said, "Allah is not just," knowing that this person is a Muslim who grew up in an environment with limited religious education and whose understanding later changed?
What is the ruling of Islamic law regarding a husband who is materially and emotionally stingy, accuses his wife of committing forbidden acts because of her work despite her adherence to Sharia regulations, burdens her with the full responsibility of the children's expenses, and disregards their emotional and educational needs, knowing that the wife has grown weary of this life?
If someone insulted me or wronged me, is it permissible for me to hit him?
Did my father die angry, and how can I atone for making him angry? Will the donor be deprived of the merits of good deeds dedicated to the deceased father?
Is it permissible for my mother to give my brother ownership of my bedroom furniture without my consent?
Is an intercessor considered disobedient to his parents and rebellious against his Lord for intervening to prevent his father from scolding his wife, which led to the father's anger, his imprecation against him, and his departure from the house?
Is the father sinful for his anger at the driver who started the altercation, and is the son's plea for forgiveness for his father accepted?
What is the difference between "those who suppress their anger and those who pardon people" and "Allah does not like the public utterance of evil, except by one who has been wronged," and when is forgiveness and suppression of anger appropriate, and when is it appropriate to complain about injustice?
Is it better for the wronged person who pardons, yet whose heart is filled with rage and resentment towards the oppressor, to pardon them in pursuit of the virtues of forgiveness, or to supplicate against them?
Does the meaning of the Hadith "The believer who mingles with people and endures their harm" include one who walks in the streets and patiently endures temptations and lowers his gaze?
Does God forgive the arrogant and conceited, especially if they fall into conceit unknowingly that it displeases God? Does the conceited and self-deluded person regret it if they fall short in obedience? And how does the conceited person presume to favor God? Does Satan cause a person to fall into conceit and arrogance against their will to distance them from obedience? And does God test a servant with conceit and arrogance to test their patience and resilience?
How can I atone for the sin of giving poisonous medicine to my neighbor's poultry, and what is the way to deal with their continuous harassment and attempts to sabotage my project?
Am I permitted to threaten my husband with divorce, or to ask him for a divorce, knowing that he is extremely temperamental, and his temper worsens after quitting hashish, and he gets angry over the most trivial matters, and uses disrespectful language, and mistreats our child? Will I be sinful if I ask him for a divorce?
Is it necessary, when seeking forgiveness from someone, to mention the rights owed, even if they are financial, or is it sufficient to predominantly believe that they will forgive without mentioning them? And is it necessary to mention them if it will anger them but they will still forgive, or if they will say, "Don't count them," or if they will impose punitive conditions? What is the ruling if the amount of money is less than fifty riyals?
Is the repentance of one afflicted by masturbation accepted if she repents, then relapses, and how can she rid herself of it?