Anger and Patience
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Does a divorce take place if the wife says to her husband: "I will leave Islam and enter the the Jewish religion if I remain your wife"?
Will an employee be held accountable for lying to obtain an emergency leave, given his fear that his lie might affect his sick mother, and is his leave permissible despite his colleagues being absent with invalid excuses, and will he be sinful for cursing clients to himself as a way to vent his anger?
Will the wife who invoked a curse upon her husband—due to his oppression of her—then he died a week after her supplication, be sinful, and will she be considered his killer?
Is what a wife suffers in terms of mistreatment from her husband's family, the husband's preference for them, and his actions that contradict her best interests and health, considered injustice that justifies her supplicating against them and speaking about them in ways they dislike?
Is the phrase "divorced, divorced, divorced," written in a state of extreme anger, considered three irrevocable divorces that do not permit the return of the wife, or a single divorce that allows for reconciliation, knowing that this is the first and last time he uttered divorce?
How can I progress through the ranks of servitude until I reach the summit?
How is it possible to deal with a father who is influenced by his second wife and accuses his children of disobedience, and is his insistence on his stance considered disobedience on his part?
Is it permissible to say "Astaghfirullah Al-Azim" (I seek forgiveness from Allah, the Mighty) during distress and hardship, or is that not permissible?
Is it permissible to sexually abandon one's wife after her repeated pregnancies against the husband's will and her deception of him, knowing that he used to have intercourse with her to please Allah and to avoid the prohibition of abandonment?
Is it permissible to supplicate against the wife's parents if they harm the husband and exploit his attachment to their daughter?
How can one deal with a mother who exhibits nervousness in her interactions and speech, while desiring to please her and avoid mutual anger?
Does my saying "I hate you and I hate your destiny" in a moment of extreme anger constitute disbelief (kufr)?
What is the ruling on the saying "Your religion is emerging (or rising)" that is widespread among young people, along with clarifying the ruling on its utterer, and is it a statement of disbelief (kufr) as some believe?
What is the concept of forbearance (hilm), and when is a person described as forbearing (haleem)? What are its limits? Is it patience in the face of severe harm to one's honor, reputation, and body, even if it comes from family members? How can a Muslim acquire the highest degrees of patience and contentment?
Is the brother's wife considered a next of kin, and would one be sinful for ceasing to visit her and avoiding her due to her bad behavior and harm?
Are there texts in the Qur’an and Sunnah that call for responding to evil with good, knowing that retribution (qisas) is mentioned in the Qur’an? And is a mother’s saying to her son, “You are not my son, and I am disavowing myself of you until the Day of Resurrection,” forbidden (haram)? And is expiation (kaffarah) due upon her?
Is it permissible to supplicate against an oppressor and conclude the supplication with: "O Allah, if this supplication of mine does not constitute an transgression against the oppressor, then O Allah, answer the supplication"?
Is what happened to me—being accused of fraud and swindling by my relatives, their fining me as compensation for their losses, and the tarnishing of my reputation—a punishment from Allah or a trial?
What is the expiation for the sin of a man who verbally abused his wife with obscene language after he found her speaking with a man with whom she had an illicit relationship, which led to the matter becoming public and her divorce?
Is a wife's intense feeling of hatred towards her husband's mother, while outwardly showing her good treatment and respect, considered hypocrisy? And what should she do about this feeling?
Is it considered a dereliction of grace and a sin to abandon a job you desired and acquired, only to regret it later? And is it considered an تجاوز (transgression/overstepping of bounds) to ask Allah for forgiveness and provision, either with another job or ample provision for a private project?
How can one deal with heated discussions with his mother, especially when they involve opinions that do not conform to Islamic Sharia, while maintaining dutifulness to her and de-escalating the discussion?
What should I do when someone insults me and curses my parents, and should I return the insult or remain silent?
Is it permissible for a husband to abandon his wife forever, with the presence of four children, neglecting her psychologically and mistreating her, under the pretext of not desiring her, while he commits acts contrary to religion?