Anger and Patience
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What is the ruling on insulting and cursing inwardly (to oneself) without moving the tongue, and is the doer sinful for it?
Is a person considered sinful if they return an offense "twofold" with the aim of teaching the aggressor a lesson and preventing them from escalating, knowing that they first exercise patience and warn the aggressor, and do not remain silent about their right or accept being oppressed?
What is the recompense for the one who inflicts the evil eye and the envious one in this world and the Hereafter?
Is a deceased father considered angry with his daughter who disagreed with him before his death, despite her supplications, charity, and recitation of the Quran for him, especially after a dream that suggests his anger?
How can one overcome anger, quick emotional outbursts, and uttering inappropriate words, especially when driving, and avoid offending others?
How can a committed 31-year-old woman, who faces family pressure to be compared with girls who commit religiously forbidden acts for the purpose of marriage, deal with her mother's repeated hurtful remarks?
What are the one hundred virtues that existed in the pre-Islamic era (Jahiliyyah) and were affirmed by Islam?
Is it permissible for a woman to seek divorce from her righteous husband after discovering his viewing of pornographic websites, then refuse intimacy with him, accuse him of perversion, and abuse him to force him into divorce, knowing that both his family and hers refuse this and he is patient with her? And is his patience considered weakness or a perfection of his character?
How can I overcome my difficult psychological state, which includes intense sadness, anxiety, obsessive thoughts, anger, abandoning prayer, and the deterioration of my general condition, and return to the right path, after my separation from my beloved fiancée?
Is the mother considered irrevocably divorced after the father uttered "Your mother is divorced" three times in front of his daughter and her uncle, along with his immediate regret for it?
How can one atone for the sin of tearing money in front of one's father in a moment of anger, knowing that the father is psychologically ill, and reconciliation with him occurred later?
Is it forbidden for a wife to imagine another man while having intercourse with her husband?
What is the ruling on writing a document for the police and competent authorities to testify to the husband's innocence in the killing of his first wife, and is it permissible to sign it? And is it permissible to sign a similar document for the family of the second wife?
Does a wronged person's waiver of their right against the oppressor invalidate the answering of their prayer against him when they are subsequently harmed by that injustice?
Is the cessation of the twins' growth and their miscarriage a tribulation from Allah, or a punishment for delaying childbirth, or for the mother's anger?
Is it obligatory to advise one's mother even if she gets angry at the advice and drives away the advisor? Does her anger nullify the obligation to admonish her? And how can one deal with her and with others through exhortation?
Is it permissible to ask my husband's family for help caring for their disabled son after his mother's death, knowing that I promised his mother I would care for him alone? And would this request be considered a breach of promise? And is what I feel—a nagging self-talk of distress concerning him—considered a sin?
Is it permissible for the wronged Muslim to supplicate against his oppressor in Qunut al-Nawazil, and is there a specific supplication for that?
Is there a sin upon one to whom Satan whispers that he is praying out of ostentation, and who then says, "I will not pray" in a moment of anger, and then immediately seeks forgiveness for that?
How should one act concerning the threat from the husband of a woman with whom an illicit relationship occurred in the past, knowing that I have repented and regretted my action, and I fear scandal and legal repercussions?
Is it permissible to obey a mother who prevents her daughter from traveling to her husband, and who is hostile towards the daughter's husband, demanding that she not communicate with him and sever her relationship with him, and who describes her daughter with the most terrible descriptions for unconvincing reasons, knowing that obeying the mother means the daughter's unhappiness?
Does supplicating against those who have wronged you and not forgiving them diminish the reward of patience, especially if they are sorcerers?
What is the ruling on performing Umrah when there are family problems between the husband's sister and the brother's wife, and how can one rectify oneself regarding these problems?
What is the ruling on someone who contracted AIDS as a result of their behavior, then repented sincerely after learning of the illness, and fears that their repentance will not be accepted because they repented after seeing the torment, believing that the disgrace of this world does not remove the torment of the Hereafter? Is what they believe correct, what should they believe, and will they be held accountable for the costs of their treatment?