Anger and Patience
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Is the Prophetic Hadith "Live with them [your wives] and contradict them" authentic, and what are the foundations for dealing with one's wife in Islam in a way that preserves the husband's dignity and does not increase problems, taking into consideration that woman was created from a crooked rib?
Should you expose someone who has wronged you and caused you harm, knowing what they did and continuing their transgression, which might lead to their dismissal from their job, or should you be patient and pray to God to reveal their matter, fearing the severance of livelihoods?
How can a son, who has been greatly wronged by his father, along with his family, and whose father's brothers aided him in this wrongdoing, maintain ties with him, especially after the son's previous attempts to do so? What is the Sharia ruling in this case?
Am I obligated to visit my family and check on them, despite the long distance (30 km) and their harming my husband and their cutting ties with me, and would I be sinful if I do not maintain ties with them since they have cut me off?
Is a husband's defense of his wife in certain situations considered disobedience to parents, especially if it leads to the father's anger, disownment, and an oath of divorce upon the mother to divorce the wife?
Why is there violence between Muslims when all of them bear witness to Oneness?
Do anger and nervousness invalidate the fast?
What is the ruling on raising one's voice at one's father and debating him due to his anger over the father raising a knife at the mother and destroying household furniture?
How can I earn people's respect and be a good role model for them, and what are the characteristics of a single Muslim young man and how can they be achieved?
What is the way to get rid of feelings of fear of failure, loss of hope, and the desire for revenge, resulting from family problems and injustice?
Do problems between spouses have a cause and a cure, knowing that the wife is twenty years old and the husband is thirty years old, and they have been blessed with a child?
Do a mother's anger or sins affect one's provision, is a lack of provision predetermined and decreed, and what should a girl who is unmarried and feels lust or a need for appreciation do?
What is the solution to help a young man who smokes and is exhausted by repeated attempts to quit smoking, and are there specialized centers that help with that?
Is the feeling of wanting to cry upon learning of the prohibition of watching foreign movies and TV series considered a dislike of Allah's ruling?
Will my repentance be accepted for the mistakes I made against Allah and people, including my cursing of Allah and His Messenger, knowing that this was due to my severe psychological state and the injustice I was exposed to, and are there conditions for the acceptance of this repentance?
What is the way to control severe anger and excessive nervousness that lead to serious marital problems, especially in light of the wife's actions that intensify the anger, and the fear of the impact of that on the children and their memorization of the Qur’an?
Is the fear of a husband's anger and his abandonment in bed, and his refusal to disclose the reason for the quarrel, considered a justification for seeking divorce without incurring sin?
How can I overcome the frustration of dealing with my mother, and what is the ruling on such an act in Islam, and is it considered disobedience to parents (ʿuqūq al-wālidayn)?
Is a husband's request to his wife to lower her voice and not gesture with her hands while speaking considered oppression and subjugation?
Can one repent from masturbating day and night in Ramadan, and how can a person rectify his situation and draw closer to Allah?
Is it permissible to supplicate by saying: "Oh Allah, I ask You for the provision of (Maryam), the palace of (Asiya), the piety of (Aisha), the heart of (Khadijah), the companionship of (Fatimah), the beauty of (Yusuf), the wisdom of (Luqman), the dominion of (Sulaiman), the patience of (Ayyub), the justice of (Umar), the modesty of (Uthman), the appointed time of (Aal Yasir), the character of (Al-Mustafa), and the love of (Ahl al-Bayt of the Messenger of Allah) - may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him"?
Is expiation obligatory for one who slapped and screamed upon the death of her father, without clearly remembering those actions?
Is it permissible to say: "If the person is rich, I will take a compensatory fine, and if he is poor, I will forgive him," or vice-versa? And is forgiveness conditional on financial considerations or not?
Is a person's feeling of anger when told about their good deeds in front of people considered hypocrisy (riya')?