Anger and Patience
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What is the fate of a father who sends a lot of money to his divorced sister with children, at the expense of his wife and son, and insults his wife despite her patience and frugality?
Is refraining from advising the relatives of paternal uncles who commit mistakes, for fear of their ridicule, considered a sin, knowing that I advise my older siblings who do not respond to advice?
What is the way to achieve psychological comfort and overcome continuous unhappiness, along with the fear of despairing of God's mercy? And is what the questioner is experiencing a test, or does God dislike her?
What is the ruling on a wife who raises her voice at her husband and children, does not respond to his request to lower her voice, rejects his advice, and her husband goes to sleep displeased with her?
What is the way to restore the satisfaction of a mother who refuses to communicate and prevents her siblings from speaking, after a dispute over money given to her to help her, as she believes she has a right over her daughter due to what she spent on her, while the daughter fears death or that her mother will die while angry?
How can one overcome attachment to the Internet and its forbidden relationships, return to the path of repentance and rectitude, and seek forgiveness from Allah?
What is the ruling on going to sorcerers and soothsayers and believing their statements without proof, and how does a person ward off accusations that may amount to adultery, and what is the correct action towards accusers, even if they are parents and siblings?
Is a young man's feeling of sexual attraction towards the same sex a trial for which he will be rewarded, and will he be held accountable for these thoughts which he cannot control? Is his marriage to a girl to whom he is not attracted an injustice to her, and is he categorized among those referred to as "people of Lot" in religion?
Is a wife's departure from her husband's home to her family considered nushuz (disobedience), if it is done to punish him for his repeated oaths of divorce over the most trivial matters?
How can one get rid of impatience and responding with insults when provoked, even if it is just a joke?
Is a young man obligated to marry a girl with whom he committed an error merely because he was engaged to her, and if he does not marry her, is he obligated to inform his future wife of what happened? And what is the expiation for his sin before Allah and before the girl's father?
What is God's ruling concerning a sister who causes problems between her sister and her family out of envy, and a brother who severs ties with his sister, influenced by the words of his envious sister? And what is the ruling concerning a mature son remaining in his parents' house due to his inability to adapt to his new marital home, and is this considered a sin?
How should one deal with a person who bothers you in shared accommodation?
Is there no good in a barren woman? And is she rewarded for being deprived of bearing a child who would be raised with an Islamic upbringing?
What is the sin incurred by a husband who is very irritable with his obedient wife for the most trivial reasons?
Is it required for a friend to apologize and ask for forgiveness in order for her friend to forgive her after she spoke ill of her?
What is the wisdom behind advocating for forgiveness and pardon, despite the belief in the necessity of punishing the wrongdoer, and does forgiveness bring about Allah's forgiveness?
Does a divorce pronounced over the phone during extreme anger count, knowing that it was the final pronouncement, and that the husband had consulted a scholar who issued a fatwa that it does not count due to the extreme anger?
Does the anger and outrage of the mother and siblings towards the grandmother who has reached the most decrepit age, lost her mind, and defecates and urinates everywhere, affect their expected reward from Allah, considering that they are committed, recite the Quran, and maintain their prayers?
Is it permissible for a man to place the 'ismah (right to unilateral divorce) in his wife's hand because he is prone to anger and lacks patience, and he had previously divorced her for the most trivial reasons, and she wishes to preserve her family?
Have I committed a sin by trying to straighten out my colleague who showed admiration for me, and does she have a right over me before God after she became angry with me and avoided me?
What is the ruling on supplicating against a husband who wrongs his wife without just cause, gambles, is stingy with money, and does not work?
Is dereliction in the rights of Muslims, such as failing to say "yarhamukallah" to one who sneezes, to follow a funeral procession, or to return a greeting of peace, considered among the rights of people for which one will be held accountable on the Day of Resurrection and which will not be forgiven except by the forgiveness of the one whose right was violated?
Is it permissible to pray behind an imam who recites Qur'anic verses, intending to direct them at a specific worshipper due to disagreements between them, such as his saying, after reciting the verse: "O you who have believed, if there comes to you a disobedient one with information, investigate," then saying after the prayer, "The message, praise be to Allah, has been delivered"?