Anger and Patience
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Are the spouses sinful if the wife cuts off her husband's father who expelled her brother and prevented him from visiting her?
How can a 17-year-old young man whom Allah has guided, and who is not knowledgeable in matters of his religion, remain steadfast in faith and avoid temptations, especially when his family does not pray and mocks him when he reminds them of Allah?
Does ridiculing the committed—even if it's a slip of the tongue, or done in a state of anger or jest—nullify good deeds, and what is the path to sincere repentance and avoiding the nullification of deeds?
Is a person sinful for feeling no love for his mother-in-law and wishing for her to leave his house, and is this considered hypocrisy, and how can he get rid of this feeling, and will he be rewarded for his patience despite the presence of this negative feeling?
How can rules for communication and shared life concepts be established with one's wife, especially in light of the following points: differences in communication styles, the wife's habit of not organizing things, and her recurring forgetfulness that has affected the children, leading to a negative impact on their upbringing?
Is what the questioner is experiencing—his fondness for conversing and sitting with girls—despite being married and diligent in prayer, an indication that he is possessed by a jinn, or that someone has performed an act of magic on him?
How do I respond to someone who has wronged me, with words or with silence, without being considered weak or being blamed for raising my voice?
Is saying, "We will all die," in response to "Are you saddened by your deceased grandmother?" considered ungratefulness and indifference towards death, or is it submission to God's inevitable decree, knowing that I seek forgiveness for her and pray for her mercy?
What is the ruling concerning a Muslim who rejoiced when his oppressive brother was punished in this worldly life, and is he sinful for that?
Does one who, in a moment of anger, said to his wife, "I'm not praying anymore; I'm going to go become a Christian," commit an act of disbelief (kufr), knowing that he regretted it, sought forgiveness, and completed his prayer?
Will I have committed the sin of breaking an oath after swearing to harm whoever harmed me, and is it permissible to swear by Allah to harm a Muslim?
What is the ruling of Islamic law regarding a sister who causes division among her siblings and harms them through backbiting and slander, and a brother who believes her and harms his sister, knowing that this sister performs acts of worship such as prayers and supererogatory acts?
Should a wife leave her husband and travel to her home country for a better job and career, despite her love for him and his attempts to travel with her, or should she stay with him and endure her parents' anger?
Is there a solution to the problem of a mosque imam who is not speaking to a person because he asked him about his character, and the imam admitted to holding a grudge against this man?
What is the expiation and punishment for threatening with "I will break your bones" in a moment of anger, knowing that a lawsuit was filed and the plaintiff apologized, saying: "I forgive you, but I am doing this to pressure you and get you out of the housing"?
Is the questioner considered an adulterer for his act with a girl he intended to marry, and is he entitled to get her back after she became engaged to another man?
What is the interpretation of the verse: "Allah - there is no deity except Him, the Ever-Living, the Sustainer of [all] existence… and those who restrain anger and pardon people - and Allah loves the doers of good; and those who, when they commit an indecency or wrong themselves [by transgression], remember Allah and in turn ask forgiveness for their sins - and who can forgive sins except Allah? - and [who] do not knowingly persist in what they have done. Those - their reward is forgiveness from their Lord and gardens beneath which rivers flow [wherein] they will abide eternally; and excellent is the reward of the [righteous] workers," and what is its relation to the death of the son after the dream in which it was mentioned?
ماذا يجب أن أفعل لإرضاء والدتي التي تسيء إلينا وتطلب المال، وهل دعواتها وغضبها علينا مقبول عند الله، مع العلم أنها تملك المال وتدخن السجائر؟
What are pardon and forbearance?
How can one repent and improve their relationship with their mother after raising their voice at her and making her angry? And does Allah forgive sins merely by asking for her forgiveness and pardon and her being pleased, even if the mother had cursed her son before forgiving him?
Is it considered a sin to treat the husband's sister in kind, after she had treated her like a sister and entrusted her husband to her care, but the husband's sister continues to be at odds and quarrelsome for no reason?
Does the reward for patiently enduring the sister-in-law diminish due to complaining, and what is the difference between forgiveness and the loss of rights? Is the inability to forgive her considered a sin?
Are two expiations obligatory or just one for breaking an oath not to visit relatives, and for not fulfilling a promise to Allah that was later carried out?
How can one deal with a mother who thinks ill of others and interprets actions negatively, which causes marital problems, while trying to please her despite not being convinced by her actions?