Anger and Patience
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Does a weak character in front of a beloved and the accompanying wrong actions hinder the acceptance of supplication (du’a) and the acceptance of repentance, and does Allah forgive and pardon for that?
What should the questioner do, as she has hurt her friend with words and apologized to her many times, but her friend has not forgiven her?
What is the prescribed Islamic action for someone who was unjustly beaten and was able to retaliate?
What is meant by the Prophetic envoy? Is it only about delivering the message, or does it also involve staying in the country?
Is the patience of a woman who married the man she committed adultery with, believing that to be her duty, rewarded, considering he insults and beats her due to her insistence on him going to prayer, and will her repentance and seeking forgiveness be accepted?
Is what a mother does, in insulting and hitting her 21-year-old daughter for the most trivial reasons, and describing her with humiliating terms in front of others, acceptable in Islam? And is the daughter considered disobedient to her mother if she rejects this treatment, and will Allah be angry with her?
What is the legal ruling on refraining from arguing with a Christian employer who has wronged and insulted, and acting with forbearance and not returning evil for evil, while awaiting the payment of one's salary?
What is the supplication that helps alleviate nervousness when dealing with children?
Is the saying "Minna Lillāh" (From us to Allah) considered a supplication against someone, and will it be answered if a mother says it to her daughter in a moment of anger, knowing the mother's deep regret and fear of the supplication being answered?
Is it considered bad manners or a lack of trust in God to say: "Who sought forgiveness and got married? Who gave charity and was cured? Who sponsored an orphan and became pregnant? Who sought forgiveness for a sin and God provided for her? How many times did God respond? And after how long – a month, or two months?" Especially when asking about the duration?
What is the ruling on swearing on the Quran, by saying: "You bitch, you wretched one, my Lord will bring it upon you and not upon me, if I speak and spy on you," in a state of extreme anger, unconsciousness, and ignorance?
Will Allah hold me accountable for yelling at my father who prevented me from going to the Qur'an memorization center, knowing that I am remorseful, and will Allah invalidate my deeds and not accept what I memorize from me?
Will Allah forgive a sin committed in childhood, and do I get intrusive thoughts that I am ugly and people will talk about me once my secret is exposed?
What is the ruling on a woman giving a wicked young man a person's address so that he may assault him, and is it permissible to supplicate against her by saying: "O Allah, do not forgive this woman, and hold her to a severe account"?
Does one who says, "You have expelled me from my madhhab" or "You have made me a kafir" apostatize from the religion, and must he seek forgiveness and perform ghusl? And does insulting the religion in a moment of anger fall under disbelief and necessitate repentance and ghusl?
What is the duty of Muslims towards offending the Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him), and is the response limited to boycotting? And is apologizing to a Christian friend for a post offensive to their religion, and removing it from social media, considered a betrayal of the Messenger or an acceptable behavior? And what are the controls for publishing religious materials on social media that might anger friends from the People of the Book?
Is all moisture a woman finds upon waking from sleep considered maniy (seminal fluid) or vaginal discharge? How can one repent from sins? How does a woman know that Allah is pleased with her? And how can she alleviate her sins?
How can the Prophet's—peace and blessings be upon him—rising from the gathering after Abu Bakr's rebuttal of the man who insulted him be reconciled with the Hadith: "The two who revile each other are accountable for what they say, and the one who initiated it bears the burden, unless the wronged one transgresses"? And is the first Hadith authentic?
Why did Allah permit Satan to whisper to the children of Adam, to know what they are thinking, and to cause them to doubt their prayers?
If a person repents to Allah for abandoning prayer and reading the Quran, while fearing failure and lack of success due to his mother's and sister's prayers against him to that effect, will Allah forgive him and grant him success and prosperity, and will their prayers against him be answered?
Does praise cause the evil eye?
What is the ruling on a husband leaving his parents' home to avoid problems between his wife and his mother, given his mother's disapproval and his fear of her anger?
To what extent is the circulating statement attributed to Imam Malik, may Allah have mercy on him—"If you see a man defending the truth, yet he insults, curses, and gets angry, then know that his intention is flawed; for the truth does not need this, it is enough for the truth to be declared aloud so that it may be responded to"—authentic in its attribution? And is the meaning of this statement sound, regardless of its attribution?
How does God respond to the plea of one who has lost her phone, her connections, her academic standing, things she used to excel at, and the person she loves, and she feels deep pain and annihilation, believing that God is angry with her and punishing her with these successive calamities?