Anger and Patience
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Is boycotting a 15-year-old brother because of his denunciation of the prohibition of watching forbidden things and his not lowering his gaze correct, or is there a more appropriate reaction?
How can the constriction of provision and the accompanying poor psychological state be interpreted, despite having good qualifications and striving in obedience, while seeing others who exert less effort receiving abundant provision?
How can one reconcile His (the Most High) saying: "And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them, they say, 'Peace'" (63) and His (the Most High) saying: "and they triumph after they have been wronged," taking into account Imam Ibn Kathir's interpretation of the second verse, and the narration "they mocked them in the verse" and "Indeed, the believer strives with his sword and his tongue"?
What is the refutation against someone who claims that the niqab - whether obligatory or recommended - has become off-putting in these times, and that it hinders a woman wearing niqab from engaging in da'wah (inviting to Islam) and reform?
Can a wife request a Khula' without her husband's consent, and what are its reasons?
What is the Shar'i (Islamic legal) conduct towards a sister's husband who abuses with words and slanders in a way that touches upon honor and reputation, and financially extorts the sister by having her imprisoned under the pretext of a trust receipt, then demands the payment of the amount, and is refusing to pay the amount considered disobedience to the mother, and is there sin entailed by these matters?
Does a divorce issued by the husband stand if he was in a state of extreme rage that led him to the point of banging his head against the wall and attempting to asphyxiate himself with gas?
How does one honor a father with these characteristics? Is it sufficient to call him by phone despite the expected insults? What should a son do who insulted his father and regrets it, but cannot apologize?
Is marriage concluded solely by consent and the statement "You are my wife" over the internet? And will Allah forgive the filming of parts of the body and the practice of masturbation due to another person's request, and uttering words that anger Allah, reaching the point of polytheism, followed by repentance?
Why did Allah, the Most High, specifically mention these ten categories in verse 35 of Surat Al-Ahzab to the exclusion of others? And is there a wisdom or connection between them, and what are the similarities between them?
Is it permissible not to enjoin against evil using obscenities, especially if the anger is for the sake of Allah? And how should one deal with those who curse religion, particularly if they are uneducated or from the common folk? And is gentleness effective with them?
How should advice be given? Should it be private or public? And who is qualified to offer it?
What should a religiously committed person do, who helps others, but feels extreme distress and frustration because his family has turned against him after his projects failed, and he feels that his prayers are not being answered, and he is assailed by satanic whispers?
What should I do about having said something to an old friend in the past, which I suspect was incorrect religious information, but I don't remember what I said?
How do I deal with someone who curses me, insults me, and reviles me, or insults my family? Should I respond in kind, or should I hit him? Is cursing your father considered an insult? Are "idiot" and "donkey" considered insults or abuse? Are abuse and insults the same thing? How do I deal with someone who abuses me with phrases like "you're useless and you're doomed"? Should I respond in kind? What is the difference between cursing, insulting, and reviling?
Is my conflict with my brother, after he assaulted me first, considered an act of disobedience to my parents, knowing full well their anger and sadness?
Is it permissible to dispose of the two phones stolen from the mother, and return their value to her, in order to avoid her anger or psychological harm?
My brothers: How can a servant seek forgiveness through action?
Could our crying out during our farewell to my martyred brother be the reason for his sadness, as seen in the dream? And what can we do to earn his contentment with us?
What are the manners of a student of knowledge that are recommended to be adopted?
Is it permissible to eat from the parents' money if all of it is profit or capital from a corrupt speculation (mudarabah), or if there is another lawful income? And what is more befitting to do if the son is able to spend on himself? And will the mother's crying, anger, and displeasure harm the son if he abstains? And is it obligatory for the son to inform the father about the ruling on the money or the contract if it will cause severe anger?
Does a repentant person pay the price for their sins and transgressions by being afflicted with diseases or by having someone who harms them empowered over them, and are they deprived of a righteous spouse due to past sins after their repentance?
How do I know that Allah Almighty has forgiven my sin, and that He loves me and is pleased with me, especially when I feel His anger towards me due to the difficulty of lowering my gaze in the institute despite my attempts?
Is patience with the harm inflicted by the husband and his sisters, his attempts to marry another, and the consideration of divorce the solution to protect the son from these problems?